Get to the Root


We are aware that sex trafficking, rape, abortion, pornography, STDs, divorce, domestic violence, and many single-parent homes are ruining our society, causing a great deal of pain and destruction. Countless people have been actively fighting against these problems for years. Why then are these issues and others continuing to plague our country and the world around us? Because we are cultivating these offshoots!! Believe it or not, many of the people who go out and fight these issues are unknowingly a part of cultivating the soil in which they thrive. Unless we are willing to get our hands dirty, expose and pull these by-products up by the root, they WILL continue.

All these problems have the same damaging root source ~ the distortion of God’s design for sex and intimacy. As long as we continue to focus on the individual issues without addressing the root cause, these issues and more will continue to surface and grow. We must focus on destroying the source in order for these problems to die off. Can you imagine how powerful it could be if everyone who is fighting all these individual causes got together and attacked the root?  Actually, the place to start won’t cost you a dime. It may even save you money. Are you willing to do whatever it takes?

First, we must have a right understanding of what God’s design for sex and intimacy is. God designed sex to be a powerful, unifying means for a husband and wife to become one flesh for life and to procreate in a family setting. When sex is used as an activity or to fulfill a lustful desire instead of the loving unification of a husband and wife for life, it has destructive effects. People become objects that are used and abused (objects don’t have feelings). These troubles do not happen when God’s design for marriage and family are properly in place. Stop and take a moment to see that all these issues truly DO stem from relationships taken out of God’s design.

Next, we must STOP encouraging children to get into romantic relationships before they are ready to marry. It is NOT funny or cute to see young teens and younger starting to date. When a person is in a relationship, their brain releases oxytocin (a bonding hormone). This hormone builds trust and unity and a God-given desire to get more intimate. We are either asking our children to fight against that emotion or give in to it. Neither is God’s design. Knowing the statistics, we can see how many are giving in and the damaging effects sex before marriage is having. Instead, let’s teach our teens the qualities and the skills necessary to be productive people, spouses, and parents. Will you be a part of taking the time to teach and train our next generation? Contact your pastor or myself on ways to get started.

Last is the hard part. Sex sells!!! You must decide to have NO part in anything that promotes or condones anything contrary to God’s design. Whenever we watch a show or movie, read a book, or play a video game that distorts God’s design, we take part in creating a culture that produces the by-products previously shared. Our cable companies, stores, movies theaters, and rental sources know who is watching what. They don’t know if you’re against something in it. If you are against something, why would you want to be a part of it? Can you imagine if every person who is against any or all of the issues mentioned at the beginning would refuse to watch, read, play, or listen to anything that goes against God-designed relationships? Here are two ways you can begin to dig up the root: 1) Go to where they have the context of most media. If sex outside of God’s design or condoned abuse is in it, don’t participate. 2) Look into subscribing to  where your family can watch good wholesome movies.

Remember what goes in WILL come out. We can clearly see that what has been going into us and our children has been coming out in very damaging ways. Will the change begin with you? Our children, grandchildren and country are depending on us! Are you in? With God behind us, we can take back the land that Satan has stolen, but we MUST do our part.

Hebrews 13:4 Marriage is honorable among all, and the bed undefiled; but fornicators and adulterers God will judge.

John 15:12 This is My commandment, that you love one another as I have loved you.

By Linda Svacha, BCBC


2 thoughts on “Get to the Root

  1. You know, I found it very interesting that you wrote about people becoming objects. In reality, it seems to me that in the majority of cases, throughout our society, it’s women who are objectified. Women whose rights are stripped to a bare minimum, women who still fight for equal pay, women who are expected to be subservient and docile in some antiquated sense of purity and chastity – all while living in what is still very much a rape culture, where the media constantly seeks to chastise women as contributing to their own misery while refusing to hold men accountable. I agree with you that our society has become distorted and, quite frankly, grotesquely over-sexualized. But I don’t think the solution lies in religious affiliation – especially when you consider just how much that has become a mere lip-service for so many Sunday Christians. Rather, good moral values should be instilled and promoted without the threat of damnation – because, honestly, when someone tells a child that (s)he is born a sinner, that person is really just setting an innocent, young life up for failure.

  2. Thank you for sharing your thoughts. I totally agree that women have been objectified even in the church. That is NOT God’s design. Many have used Scripture to use and abuse women. I, too, have seen that society and the church have failed to hold men accountable for their misuse of Scripture concerning women. I am taking steps to address this. My first step to bring about change was to bring to light the distortion. Did you read the previous blog “Men of Valor Where Are You?” If not, I encourage you to read it.

    This current blog does not talk about being affiliated with religion; it addresses going back to God’s design for sex and intimacy. Just because people misrepresent God and His Word doesn’t mean that we should throw God’s way out the window. Quite the contrary. Is there something that you disagree with about God’s design? If so, I’d like for you to share exactly what you disagree with. I think it is important to stick to the main point of the article ~ the distortion of God’s design for sex & intimacy.

    Also, the article also does not talk about damnation; it address the natural consequences that go along with distorting God’s wonderful design. You stated that we need to instill and promote good morals (right & wrong behavior). Part of teaching critical thinking is to help people see both the positive and negative consequences that will go along with any decision. The place to find and know what is right and wrong behavior is in the Bible.

    Thank you again for sharing your thoughts

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